| everybody has his own values, preferences, ambitions, tastes, and dreams. Each person has something special and excellent which is different from that of other people. What is important for you is different from what is for others. Success is important, so are love and integrity. The meanings of success and love also differ from one person to another. Other than having the right goals, we need to have the right strategies. The right strategies must be based on one's strength and one's needs. You can not use what is not working well for you. Some goals are great for some people. While other goals are great for you. Some strategies are effective for some people - but may not be for you. This is where we have to be intelligent and smart about. We can not just adopt any goal and strategy without considering our personal skills, values, and preferences. And once you have chosen these goals and strategies wisely, you must focus on your ways. Your ways are going to be more or less different from other people's ways - and it is not a smart thing to spend your time and energy to criticize and complain about other people's ways, goals, and strategies. Many people make mistakes when they wait for other people to accept their goals and strategies. They make mistakes trying to make people have the "right" goals and use the "right" strategies. No matter how much we want to help other people, the best way is to focus on our life and achieve what we really want to achieve. If you want to ... |
