| Ladies, remember that being independent begins with yourself. Being independent does not necessarily mean that you don't need people. You can be around people and share yourself in a way without dependency. I'm independent because I'm aligned thoughts and my feelings,thus, I have already established my purpose to pursue the best person I can be. You don't need goals to get through life, just be logical, reasonable and cautious of the world that revolves around you. For example, think of your life as a "government", you have to create certain standards to stabilize your domain and peace within yourself. Then you regulate this foundation by thinking with your mind and invade your head with positivity. However, you may not fully comprehend the analogy I am imposing, but once you have come to the realization that YOU are your own person, and everyone else around you is out to make ends meet, then you are already become independent. Independence won't always provide you strength, I have plenty of weaknesses, but it's up to you how you handle those weaknesses. My weakness are people. Though I am not a people person, I feel for them, I deep compassion when someone is need, I give my world to them. I don't try to fix their world, but I infect them with my positivity. Try it, it makes life easier and far more simple. On the contrary, start with being emotionally independent, then you can progress to be financially, environmentally independent. Only think about what is BEST for YOU ... |
